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FuNnY
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I know this might be a bit of an out there topic but im so confused. im sure im a Lezbian but now i dont know what to do...ive never been with a guy or a girl, but id like to try with a girl, im just not sure of wat to do wen i go to cross that bridge.
any help is appreciated
[Confused]

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Heather
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The same way anyone else does.

Sex isn't just heterosexual intercourse. Sex is any number of combination of things people do together to seek mutual sexual pleasure, and what those things or that combination are varies for everyone, even from day to say.

So, one a given day, Lesbian Couple A may want to engage in some mutual masturbation and some oral sex, while Lesbian Couple B may choose to engage in shared manual sex and genital massage, and lesbian Couple C may decide to do some big-time snuggling paired with strap-on play.

Figuring out what it is exactly we do with any given partner isn't some script we follow, it's about exploring our sexuality and theirs, communicating, experimenting, and varying what we do, and how we do it, baed on mutual wants, needs and preferences. [Smile]

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FuNnY
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wow thanks heaps thats really helpful its given me good insight [Smile] seriously thank you so much.

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Ametrine
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if you are still curious there is this fantastic book:
The Whole Lesbian Sex Book by Felice Newman

good chance your library has it, if not amazon does:
http://www.amazon.com/Whole-Lesbian-Sex-Book-Passionate/dp/1573440884

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