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R:a:c:h:e:l:'s::c:o:n:f:u:s:e:d
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okay, so, I'm in 10th grade and ever since 8th grade, i've been looking at s and I think I kinda have a thing for them.

I'm not sure if I'm bi or not cuz i don't know if I'd see myself with another from my school.
I think I definitely like s though, because I fantasize about them frequently and if is on , the females turn me on, and the guys on there are just a sigh. but I'm also turned on my guys.
uhhh, I'm just ot sure, and I'm really sensitive to what other people think of me so I don't talk about it that much, and i'd feel awkward holding hands with another female in front of kids at my school. And you know, people still aren't that accepting these days.
Please, please, please, give me some sugestions, or something. Should I experiment with other s??

Rachel

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wobblyheadedjane
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I'm going to shoot this over to Orientation and Identity, since it fits better there.

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logic_grrl
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i've been looking at s and I think I kinda have a thing for them.

Okay, I'm a bit confused. What do you mean by "s"?

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Bebop Bodhisattva
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I take it "s" is a pseudonym for "A girl I really dig"?

I would strongly recommend not concerning yourself with orientations and labels. They'll not do you any good. Your feelings are your feelings, and just leave it at that.

I think you have some idea of what kind of answers you're going to get for what to do about your girl-crush. But it's really not as simple as "Go for it!" If you have reason to believe she'll reciprocate, no reason not to. But do you have any ideas as to how she'd react to such a revelation?

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R:a:c:h:e:l:'s::c:o:n:f:u:s:e:d
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haha, okay "s" was the word "gir1" but my computer bleeps it out, so that "s" was probably "gir1s".

sorry for the confusion

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Heather
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(Let's try sticking with standard english per our guidelines, okay? That way we can understand you, and your cpmputer won't plotz, either: "girls" works.)

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R:a:c:h:e:l:'s::c:o:n:f:u:s:e:d
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nooo, it doesn't work....
That is why I put a "1" instead of a l.
I puts "gir1s" (except with a L) in the first place and you could only see the S.

[ 10-25-2006, 06:26 PM: Message edited by: R:a:c:h:e:l:'s::c:o:n:f:u:s:e:d ]

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Ikeren
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Bad Keyboard, Rachel? I dont' really understand why "Girls" would be tapped to "s", but you can use the letters GIRL fine everywhere else...

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R:a:c:h:e:l:'s::c:o:n:f:u:s:e:d
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actually.......wrong. when I type the word
"g!rl(s)"
the word g!rl gets bleeped out but the S stays because it's not part of the word g!rl.

it's soo weird...does that make sense??

it does that with a few other words too.

it's not my keyboard, but the computer itself

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logic_grrl
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Does your computer have some sort of net censorship program, by any chance?

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R:a:c:h:e:l:'s::c:o:n:f:u:s:e:d
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I have no idea. I've never even heard of that.

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How do I post?
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Spritie, I assume you're asking how to start a new topic?

Go to the main Orientation and Identity list here:
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=forum;f=16

Then click on New Topic, which is in bold font in the upper right corner, under the navigation bar for the main site.

Here's its link (a shortcut if the link works):
http://www.scarleteen.com/cgi-bin/forum/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=newtopic;f=16

We look foward to hearing from you. [Smile]

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