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Ok, here's the thing, i'm very confused. I'm 14 and go to an all girl school. I know that i'm not completely gay as i fancy guys lots. I've had a few "experiences" :P with my best mate, and i'm considering my sexuality, i don't think i fancy girls, but i have feelings for them and dream about things my friend and i have already done. Can anyone help, or tell me if they've been in this situation??
Any help would be fantastic

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(This is actually a question about sexual orinetation, rather than one about gender. So, after I answer this, I'll move it to the orientation and identity forum.)

If you don't fancy girls, why be, in any way, sexually active with one?

Here's the thing: are you interested in a sexual or romantic relationship, to whatever degree, with women? If you are, then it's entriely possible you're bisexual or lesbian (the latter if those feelings are exclusive or mostly exclusive to women).

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i say you're bisexual ...
but seriously i think most people are, most people even if they have a defined peference have the potential to have feelings for someone of the same gender ... dont' sweat it

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