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Okay-MAJOR dillema- it might not seem so big, but I tend to through things WAAAAY out of proportion and then I panic, and freak out- but anyway- my problem is I'm dating this guy, right. I really like him, and I feel that I can really relate to him, but he's 19 and I'm 15, and he's my friend's older brother, but we never get to see each other. Then on the other hand, there's this girl who I like as a person, and am *REALLY* curious about, and she's SOOOOO nice, and my age! But I don't want to leave my BF, but this girl really intrigues me! I'm probably going to leave her be, since we live in a small consevative town, and any inquiries might alienate her, but I needed to get this off of my chest. Besides, any advice will be welcome!


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First off: I need to warn you that in Minnesota, the age of consent is 16 (see this link for more: ). This means that your boyfriend can be legally prosecuted for being with you.

Second, I'm not really sure what your question is. Do you want to tell her that you like her? I think deciding whether or not to leave your boyfriend for her is a little premature, since you don't really know if she likes you. Would you care to clarify?

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