I think I'm going crazy. I apparently do not have a sexuality. I don't want to be bisexual (even though I think that's where I stand) because I don't want to be seen as trendy...I have been with a girl and a few guys.Still a virgin...am I whining?
Posts: 7 | From: Longview, Texas, United States | Registered: Dec 2002
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No, but I think I understand what you're talking about. It's okay to not have a labelled sexuality, whether that's because you dislike choosing a title for feelings that don't seem to suit it, or because you just don't like the label. It's alright to like something and not feel that doing so puts you into a certain role. I'm one of those people too, if it makes you feel any better.
------------------ Milke, with an L, SSBD, RATS, TMNTP
You're going through a rough time and that's okay. You're perfectly human for discussing how you feel. It's not uncommon to feel the way you do. If people didn't express them the way you did, we would NOT be humans.
As Milke said, you don't have to be labelled if you don't want to be
I personally don't think there's anybody out there who wants to be bi. IF I had an optimal choice, I'd rather be attracted to guys (gay) or attracted to gals (straight). There's a difference too between actions and feelings. Some can argue that not acting on your thoughts makes you straight and you are only gay or bi if you act on it.
Take your time to determine your sexuality.. Seek support groups or other peers to discuss how you feel. You're NOT alone.
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