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I've got a boyfriend and i really like him but a few months ago i kissed my bestfriend and i really liked it. I'd never kissed a girl before but since then whenever we are alone together after a few drinks, we end up sleeping together. I know i'm not a lesbian as i like boys loads but i can't get this girl out of my head and what makes it worse is that she's a really good friend, but i'm really confused, because i like her as well as my boyfriend... help me!!
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I know you're going through a hard time right now. You're questioning your sexuality and your relationships with your good friend and boyfriend.

There's a good chance that you're either bisexual or bi-curious. It's perfectfully NORMAL to be intimate with a member of both sexes. That doesn't mean you're a lesbian though.

Based on your feelings towards both of them, it appears that you're bisexual.

I'm NOT going to condone or condemn your drinking. However, I'm confused if the alcohol is meant to cover up or the cause your intimacy with her. Or does not the drinking have no significance?

Have you talked to her about your feelings?
Please consider talking to her if you haven't already. Best of luck

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Oh the alcohol. It always confuses things. Alcohol bad.
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