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My really good friend might be bi. I gave him the gaydar url to help, but I dont know how else to. he has been going through thos fer along time. first he thought he was gay fer awhile then he wasnt and now he thinks he is bi. I want to help him through this. but I am starting to think his friend is bi to. I dont know what to do for my friend. any suggestions?
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I think you are doing all you can to help. This is probably a very confusing time for him and he might just need to sort some feelings out for himself. Most importantly, just listen if he needs to talk and don't judge him. I'm sure he will appreciate it!
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Just be there for him, if he needs someone to listen and give him advice if he asks. That's really all you can do.

Why does a rose represent love, when a rose always dies??

Friends are like condoms, they help out when things get hard.

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try your best to take the pressure off him. let him know that you dont care what his sexuality is, and that it's ok for him to be confused about it, too.

you sound like you care about him a lot!!

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