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[Edited for Clairity] ------------------ Tim (a.k.a. the dude) ------------------------- "I am man who has grown from a son Been crucified by enraged women I am son who was raised by such men I'm often reminded of the fools I'm among... I am a man who still does what he can to dispel our archaic reputation I am a man who has heard all he can Cause I don't fare well with endless punishment..." -- Alanis Morissette ("A Man")
[This message has been edited by Dude_who_writes (edited 12-09-2001).]
Okay, I just did it, god knows how, but I just did. They didn't have a heart attack, and in fact they were quite cool about it (they actually used to term "enjoy both worlds"!), but they think it's just a phase. They wanted to know that I still like guys and didn't rule them out. They told me that they love me no matter what. My heart's still pounding a 100 miles per hour...
------------------ Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, if he gets angry, he'll be a mile away - and barefoot.
good for you!!!!!!!!! im glad that yoy got the reaction you wanted and that your parents support you even though they think it is just a phase. i wish that everyone was like your parents.
Posts: 365 | From: dayton,ohio,u.s.a. | Registered: Oct 2000
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Wow, Buttercup, that's always great to hear. You've got some very cool parents, and I bet they'll come to accept that it's not a phase once you give them a little time. Congratulations!
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Whoo-hoo! *huge hug* Coming out to anyone always takes some guts but parents are the hardest. I'm glad everything went so well.
Posts: 3641 | From: Truckee, CA, US | Registered: Sep 2001
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Very happy to hear that you got such a positive initial reaction from your parents. Like Kitty, I bet they'll soon realise that this isn't "just a phase". So nice to hear that what matters to them is primarily that you are happy.
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