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18/m here. When I was 9 me and another boy my age had anal I liked the physical feeling but had no emotion. never happened again. am I a bi guy? if not is that "normal" to like to recieve anal pleasure?
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Welcome to Scarleteen!

I don't think there is a normal. Yay for lack of normality. You may or may not be bisexual, all that liking anal stimulation means is that you like anal stimulation. Some guys like it, some don't. Some that do are straight, some aren't.

Bisexual means roughly equally attracted to males and females, so you could be bisexual if that is the case. If not, it could be you just enjoy anal play, which isn't normal or abnormal, it just is.

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Sexual experimentation with same sex friends is pretty normal for pre teens and those going through puberty. Nine is a little bit on the early side, but nothing to be concerned about. Are you attracted to both guys and girls today, if so its pretty likely that you are bi. When you jerk off, do you think about both sexes, or only about girls (or only about guys). Those are the sorts of questions which will lead you to your answer.
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Although we should keep in mind that fantasies aren't always, and nor should they be, realities. Are you emotionally attracted to men as well as women? Are you physically attracted to them both?

just ask yourself these sorts of questions. Your sexuality is ever changing and not something you can ever work out over night. Throughout your life it will change, and that's perfectly fine.

As for the anal play...there are plenty of straight men who like it, and fortunatly for them, there are many toys their girlfriends can use so that they can have that in their relationship.


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