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fallchild
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Someone else already said Jasmine from Disney's Aladdin. What can I say? That gal is HOT [Wink]
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a girl at my camp when I was 11 I realized it after I found out she was lesbian.
my first celeberty girl crush was Ashley on south of nowhere a few weeks ago so when I was 13

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My latest crush is on Cathy DeBuono, she's just so hot.
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I noticed at least one other person had an early crush on Sailor Uranus (or Haruka Tenoh) from Sailor Moon. I'm guilty too! I had to be 10 years old and she was so beautiful and strong and didn't take **** from anyone. I recognize my infatuation with her, even though I didn't realize it then.
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Oh wow, my first crush was definitely on this cute girl in fifth grade. I knew it was a crush at the time, but I never really thought of its impact until a few years later when I really began to acknowledge my sexuality. Famous people wise, I'm crushing on model Agyness Deyn and Keira Knightley. <3

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hehe, when I was younger, I was so attracted to Julie Andrews in The Sound Of Music and Mary Poppins.. I was so young, I didn't realise it was a crush.. until I watched the movies again recently [Smile] All I was thinking was.. "god.. Julie Andrews is so beautiful and hot.. now I know why I was so attracted to her when I was younger!" Now I wish I could go back in time and marry her lol! [Big Grin] Oh well I can always dream! lol!

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Earliest girl-crush? My then and now best friend. Probably started liking her in early 6th-ish grade, first entertained the possibility that it was a crush late 6th grade, and decided that I'd definately liked her in 9th grade. Told her in 9th grade, knowing she wouldn't mind. She's got a boyfriend, and he's awesome. So... that's happy.
Celebrities? Ummm... Alexis Bledel. Lily from Hannah Montana...

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i think it was...well i was very young but one of the few girls i had crushes on were my friend vanessa, mmm the nanny of one of my friends(on my defense she was GORGEOUS!) my nanny raquel(she was like 21 and she was HOT) lol
oh and in school like in 4th grade there was this girl, i swear! she had a crush on me! jaja she wrote it on a note.
oh and in high school when i was a freshman(im a junior now) this girl and me just flirted all the time... and she didnt even know i was bisexual. since she started flirting with me, i started doing the same. lol

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my friend ben when i was 8 or 9 (my first guy crush), uhhh michael john or whatever from american idol is very attractive. lol. *blush* aaand my newest crush, connor from my spanish class =p

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When I was about 8, I liked this girl Samantha(who was my friend) , we go camping in the summer and there was these people we know who are seasonal campers and once they brought their granddaughter, no wait it was 2 times they brought her, and when we had sleep-overs at her grandparents trailer we would like do oral sex on eachother and kiss and everything, but since I was only 8/9 I dont really count that as my first time having oral sex , I dont know if I should or not so I just dont

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Seventh grade, new girl. Very pretty, dark auburn hair and cute smile. Very nice, silly, fun, amazing. Crush remains.

Celebrities? Ellen Page for a while; I'm kind of obsessed with Olivia Thirlby right now.

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I'm in my last year of school and I've developed this enourmous crush on the head of our year group, who is also an english teacher.

I find her extremely sexy and attractive and we get on so well...slightly better than students and teachers should, I think! However, that said, i don't know how she feels...i mean she's always flirting with me and seems to give me preferential treatment over the rest of the students in my year group but I have no idea what to do!!!?? HELP!?

Celebrity crushes would be: Alessandra Ambrosio, Jennifer Beals, Mandy Musgrave, Doutzen Kroes...I do like the supermodels!! [Smile]

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I still have that same problem quite a bit. And I personally think its because I have an over active imagination. But I can garuntee that a very huge population of females develop crushes on other females. Most of the time it is because there is something about them that you wish guys had in them, or you think of yourself looking like them or being like them, and you grow so fond of them you start a little crush. It's most likely a phase. But there is still a possibility that you are becoming bi-sexual. My advice is to maybe explore a little. Experiment. Start out slowly though, start with an innocent kiss with someone willing. If you do want it to pass, then maybe it will help you move on from those type of feelings.

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And to "tequila101" my best thought to that would be not to make any big moves. Im not trying to be rude or anything at all but since you like her, it could all be in your head. my mother is a psycologist and she has alot of patients that come to her with subjects like these. And because you have developed such a big crush on your teacher you have developed this hypothetical relationship in your mind with her. I hope that you dont take any of what I have said as me being mean. Next time you talk to her or see her try to put the thought of her flirting out of your mind. Because if you think about it she may just really like you as one of the student that dont try to be a class clown or smart alec.

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Tequila- I would avoid any sort of interaction with your teacher beyond what is appropriate for students and teachers, regardless of whether she seems interested in you as well. You both could get into a ton of trouble (especially the teacher- she could lose her job for getting involved with a student).

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totally natalie imbruglia especially in her torn video... Clarissa in clarissa explains it all... Winona Ryder, alex mack haha... So cool... And nelly furtado back in the day... First big crush was on this older girl I danced with... She was the most amazing dancer, I used to go to the studio just to watch the senior dance team's classes... Obviously still obsessed!
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quote:
Originally posted by margi007:
My first same sex crush was Princess Jasmin from the Disney movie ALADDIN. It must be true what they say about corrupting subliminal messages in kids' cartoons!

YES! You too? I thought Princess Jasmin was me-ow long before I realised that made me more than straight...oh, and while we're on the subject of disney, the felinish Captain from Treasure Planet was another one, even if her name's lost to me right now.

Hnn, real life - quite a few of the pretty indian/pakistani girls in my high school, including my chemistry teacher... my gods that woman had an amazing rack... it's a miracle we ( as in me and the boys in the class) ever wrote anything down when she was facing us.

As for actresses, Halle Berry, Jennifer Lopez, and Freema Agyeman. Blame Princess Jasmin.

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Oh Lordy...

First was Jamie Lee Curtis (Fish Called Wanda), then Zooey Deschanel and Keira Knightley, for a while it was Anna Pacquin (X-men), now it's totally Maggie Gyllenhaal (Mona Lisa Smile, Stranger Than Fiction, and The Dark Knight). And Imogen Heap, too! Gosh, I never realized how many girls I have crushes on 'til now [Big Grin]

Wow, reading through this thread...you guys all have REALLY good taste! [Big Grin]

P.S. Hey, AnansiGirl-- that feline alien's name Captain Amelia... I should know, I was obsessed with her for a loooooong time [Big Grin]

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Hmmm... mine need updating a tad from Page 2...
Patrick Dempsey
Barack Obama
Andrea Bocelli (I know...)
And Michael Stipe... although he's actually gay, so you never know.
That reminds me of this video he made taking the mick out of heteronormativity:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MuHayrdAP_k

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Hmm.
My first same sex crush was probably..
Sakura.. From Cardcaptors.
I'm serious. XD
I loved that show.

NOW? Celebrity crushes: ANGELINA JOLIE, Scarlett Johanson, Megan Fox.. XD
Mmmmm. @w@;

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um....
her name was Dana.. in 7th grade
went to a sleepover with... slept by her(swoons)

i love anime girls... Hinata from naruto is my absulute fave!!
I also had a crush on my 7th grade scines teacher... lol

(if anybody knows who i am dont tell anyone)

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Jenn Aniston all the way. she's so beautiful, talented and 100% classy.
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I used to have a huge crush on Jamie Lee Curtis after seeing her in A Fish Called Wanda, I said how I thought she looked really distinctive and striking and that was how I realized I wasn't straight, it suddenly occurred to me that I didn't just admire her, I was into her, I knew that what I was feeling was sexual, it was teh awesome. Also I had a thing for Alyson Hannigan, Wynona Ryder and this cool anime character from a series called His and Her Circumstances called Tsubaki, I now have a crush on Margaret Cho and this awesome girl I know who's a friend of mine, and a bit of a thing for Sue Perkins, I also loved Linda Smith, and I have an admiration crush (kinda) on this nice older woman I know who's been really supportive of me, though it's only slightly sexual and mostly just a sense of the exhilaration that comes from seeing someone who's company you love.

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I remember all of my same-sex crushes and believe me, there's too many to mention. [Big Grin]
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When I was about 6, Mary Martin as Peter Pan. I'd run around singing "I'm Flying," imagining I was Peter Pan too.

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Annie Lennox from precisely this music video (god i love youtube [Big Grin] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8pGJFwI_tM )

I don't remember how old I was when I first saw this, but I was definitely still a kid. Watching that video again inspires one of those pleasant gushes of nostalgia...sigh...

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(Boy, THAT brings back memories. The woman that gave me permission to crop my hair to nothing and wear ties in 1983!)

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wow,and i thought i was the only one having these same sex crushes but i mostly have crushes on celebrities
my first same sex crush was my class teacher in seventh grade(and this was also my last same sex crush on a non-celebrity)
my celebrity crushes
angelina jolie and olivia wilde

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My first same sex crushes were at 2 and 3. Well before I had crushes on the opposite sex at 8 and 9. My first same sex crush on a celebrity, however, was Natalie Portman at 7 when the first Star Wars prequel came out. Then Emma Watson at 10 with Harry Potter, and Angelina Jolie at 12. Now I have tons, but those were the first really.
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Oh my gosh, I had a crush on Emma Watson when I was younger too! ^_^ (and maybe still do a little bit..) I remember trying to convince my best guy friend in 5th grade that she wasn't hot because I thought she was... (it made sense in my mind at the time)
I've had a crush on Scarlett Johansson a lot for a few years. I think she's gorgeous.
As for legit non-celebrity crushes... aside from slight little things, my first real crushes on girls are actually now. I've had a kind of admiration-crush on a girl who lives down the street from me for about a month, and for the past couple weeks, basically since school started, I've had a major crush on a freshman (I'm a junior...weird? she looks and acts older than I am) who hangs out in my group. I'm pretty much obsessed, and it's getting past a little crush at this point [Wink]

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My first crush was the new girl who came to my elementry school during my third grade. I totally thought she was a boy for about a year, but when I found out she was a girl it didn't change my feelings towards her. Then she left and I forgot about her and this new girl came into my life in grade eight english. I was her partner for an ice breaker exercise and we became friends quickly. I didn't realize I had a big crush on her until I asked her to make out with me one drunken new years. lol
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Ooh, I used to have a crush on this very tomboyish girl who was the older sister of one of my sister's friends, she was about my age and I thought she was a boy then I found out she was a girl and I thought "does it really make any difference?" This all happened over the course of one afternoon [Smile]

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Always liked Omri Katz from Eerie Indiana, but my first "feeling" was for Christopher Robin in the Winnie the Pooh cartoon. [Smile]
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Ah..i like my friend..dark black hair tan skin..brown eyes:) she's so PRETTY..and nice..and she thinks she bi like me:)) so happy..but i kinda like hermione in the harry potter movies [Big Grin]

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I first liked a girl in kindergarten. Young, I know. It was obviously not the same sort of a crush I would feel now, but I thought she was perfect and I didn't understand how anyone could feel any differently. I didn't ever talk to her, I simply stared at her during recess (she wasn't in my class) and I never told any one how I felt, I had no idea that there was anything special about how I felt about her. I just thought she was amazing and that everyone else thought so too.

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