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Hi, I haven't posted on here in a while and I was sitting in my room thinking about the guy I am dating and I realized that eventually, if we make it that far, he will want to have sex and that really scares me.

I don't know why, I am sexually attracted to people, like I know I am not asexual, but something about the act of having sex scares me. Like I am afraid he'll see me and get all repulsed by my body or something, or I won't be that good at it and he'll break up with me. I know I am overreacting about it, but gah! It's a scary thing to think about. Help!

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You know, sex can be a pretty scary thing, but it also helps to realize that your partner is with you for a reason,and that's because they want to be with you as you are. As per being good at it? It's a learn as you go type of thing. Not everyone'll be sure of what's going on all the time, and part of the fun comes in learning together. Have a lookat this article here: First Intercourse 101

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