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People who I can trust are people who are my age and up. Most people I can't trust is people who are 13-15. More especially 13-15 year old girls who I would see at those GLBT groups. A lot of them that I met, possibly could be up to no good. I'm sure not all of 'em are like that. I'm not having any gender/age/preference stereotyping.
The problem is, I'm feeling very defensive about trust. I'm worried about knowing who to date and whatnot. I feel like I'm going out in the woods and I'm getting overly defensive against dangerous animals. I get worried about ending up with a girl, say one who smokes and/or drinks behind my back. I'm sure older people do that to. But I get more worried about younger people doing it.
The bigger issue is, I'm more attracted to girls who are that age. I know you were probly going to say "then don't date those girls". I'm not so sure about that. Part of it is the chemicals I jus' learned about that even though it's not a good idea, you still wanna do it. Like if you have an abusive partner, you still want him/her.
I feel like crap just thinking about it! Please help!
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Do you think you were someone who people should not have trusted when you were 13, 14 and 15?
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