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Ste-Funnie
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I looked at some sex toys and immediately fell in love w/ them. I saw bendable, double end, strap on dildos and I think that's perfect for queer women to use. I also saw these sex dolls that I can practice with just to get it out of my system. They even have these sex clothes, such as knee-high fish nets. I would use it as a security blanket when I'm practicing. But I wouldn't you know, take porn pictures. There is also a toy pussy that I could maybe practice on it.

I crave these items, b/c I want to practice because I've never hooked with a girl before. I thought this could be a good opportunity if I ever want to lose my virginity with a girl.

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I'm very gay for being a lesbian, and not gay to be what I'm not

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Heather
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Hey, Ste-Funnie: the forums are really for conversations, rather than for the kind of things we'd write on a personal blog or journal. In other words, when someone posts a new topic, it should be either about asking a question, or soliciting some kind of conversation. You've made a couple posts lately like this, where I just can't really see how anyone could contribute or answer, so I thought I'd mention it.

Also, we ask users to try and use language around sex and body parts here that's more of what you'd hear in the doctor's office than colloquially. When people use terms like you did up there, that can result in net nannies reading the site with a different criteria, which can result in less access for some young people, which we obviously don't want.

Thanks!

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Ste-Funnie
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Oh I'm sorry, Heather. I thought I could post these things, cuz like, I wanted to post this just to talk about this to get it out of my system. I just wanted to express my sexual desire, if you know what I mean. I thought the sight was for that too. My bad.

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~Stephanie Gabriella Murray
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Ste-Funnie
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Also I was asking if what I was talking about up there was a good idea.

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~Stephanie Gabriella Murray
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Heather
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No need to be sorry, it's just meant for conversations, rather than journal entries, since it's a community-oriented space. It's also really more for talking about these issues or asking questions than for...you know, I don't have the right words for what this is, but I'm hoping you get the difference.

Maybe you should consider starting a LiveJournal or some other kind of blog/journal for this stuff? You could do so just as anonymously with something like that as you can here: more so, really, since a personal blog often doesn't get a lot of traffic.

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Ste-Funnie
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I actually do have a blogger. I talk about so many things I can't talk about on here lol.

The point of this entry was to ask people if practicing on these things is a good idea if I want to have sex w/ a girl. I wanted to know if it would teach me or if it would lead to negativity. I know, I forgot to put that in the post. I always forget to put the most important things in something.

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~Stephanie Gabriella Murray
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Heather
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Well, sex toys can't teach you things about people or their bodies. They're objects. To learn about what partners enjoy, we need to be with and communicate with partners, because a) they aren't made of silicone and b) they're all going to be different. [Smile]

But they can help you learn about some of what YOU may like and enjoy when used for your own masturbation, and they also can simply be something you may enjoy, which has its own value.

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Ste-Funnie
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Thanks Heather

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~Stephanie Gabriella Murray
I'm very gay for being a lesbian, and not gay to be what I'm not

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