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Teragram
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Well I got into a relationship with a girl a little while ago and I am not sure if I should have done it. I have stronger feelings for another girl that I am much closer with. The only problem is that she moved away. And I don't know if I should stay with this girl or try and see if we get closer. [Confused]

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Stephanie_1
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Hey Teragram, welcome to Scarleteen!

Honestly, nobody can decide for you which girl is best for you, it's going to have to be a lot about your own feelings and wants here. Have you talked to the other girl, and do you know if she feels the same way about you?

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Teragram
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Well the other girl I think she did kind of like me too. But she's waaayyy to far away now.
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Heather
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It sometimes helps in situations like this to remember that when you have two people to choose from being involved with, it's not just a choice between one or the other. Sometimes, neither is the right choice.

So, if one girl is too far away to have a relationships with, but you don't feel that strongly about the other, have you considered that maybe right now neither may be a good fit for you?

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Teragram
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Wow that's reeaalyy good advice and I thank you both. It is very helpful and I am considering what is right for me.
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