Well I have a huge crush on my friend shamika an I don't kno how to tell her I'm mean she's a really cool person and she's nice an all but I think that she'll reject me cause I'm not really her type she usually dates studs but I just want my fair chance wat do I do??
Posts: 5 | From: hawthorn,CA | Registered: Apr 2010
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Hi! First, I'd probably wait on asking Shamika out if you're still confused/unsure about this situation. Once you've worked out what you're wanting there, then you can look into other dates and what not but not making some decisions/finding closure there will probably make this crush harder.
That said, by saying she only dates "studs," do you mean she just dates a certain type of guys or just a certain type of girl or both? If you could please clarify there, I can write a more detailed response. In general, we may have certain "types" of people we're especially interested in but it doesn't mean that we ONLY are interested in dating people in that group or, for that matter, that we're attracted to all people in that group. Ultimately, dating really comes down to attraction and chemistry between individuals. So, if you like Shamika and want to ask her out, why not just do it? If she's interested, you can take it from there; if she's not, you tried and got your answer and can also take it from there. How does that sound?
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