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angelcakes
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Okay so im almost 20 and have been boy crazy my entire life! i met my best friend sarah almost 3 years ago. since then we have been inseprable. we talk every day almost all day texting and just talking about boys and how horny we are. we both have never been in a relationship because we just cant seem to find anyone worth dating in our city. anyways i only see her really every few weeks because of work and stuff we have going on. and about 2 months ago we had time together and were talking about these guys we like and were getting pretty horny and had giggles. and so when we were alone we always give each other little head rubs and boob rubs just cause they feel nice. [edited for explicitness--orca]

then i saw her again a few days ago and we always talk like normal about the guys we love and wanna **** and we dont bring up the rubbing thing that much. then when we were alone a few days ago we went a little farther, [edited for explicitness--orca]

but after all this i know im not a lesbian and i really do love guys and never look at girls that way. and i love her, but not in a way that i wanna be with her forever. idk im really confused and wanna know if im bi or something? but i really love guys ppl

[ 09-08-2009, 05:51 AM: Message edited by: orca ]

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orca
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angelcakes, I've had to remove parts of your post because the descriptions were far too graphic. We ask that our users please keep in mind that this site serves people under 18 and therefore posts that look like amateur erotica have absolutely no place here. It's okay to say "we performed manual sex on one another" but really, anything more than that is going to be far too explicit and totally unnecessary information. Please review our user guidelines, which you agreed to when you signed up at this site.

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GoGoGadget Flow
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i have a friend like that too. we are both totally stright. she is the only friend i would do things like this with, because all the sex talk just makes us sexually comfortable with eachother, so doing things like that doesnt seem weird, just fun (:
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Ecofem
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[Hey angelcakes, I think you'd find these articles informative. There are a bunch but I'd start with the first three, then read all or pick and choose the ones that seem most interesting to you. [Smile] A lot of those refer to bisexuality but I'm not saying you are... ultimately, you can choose what you want to call yourself. However, if you're finding yourself attracted to girls/women -- or just your friend-- I think it might help considering the various possibilities and seeing how what people have written below jibe with how you feel.]

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gaydar/bi_the_dozen_a_bisexuality_quiz
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gaydar/the_bees_and_the_bees_a_homosexuality_and_bisexuality_primer
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gaydar/living_without_labels
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/im_bisexual_so_why_dont_i_feel_exactly_the_same_about_men_and_women
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/she_came_out_and_now_im_questioning_myself
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/im_a_bisexual_girl_with_a_great_boyfriend_and_a_bunch_of_guilt
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/my_bff_and_i_hooked_up_at_a_sleepover_now_she_wants_to_have_sex_all_the_time_but_i_wa
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/is_attraction_to_the_same_sex_really_okay
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/i_think_i_might_be_bisexual_but_i_really_do_not_want_to_be
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/so_im_thinking_im_bi

[ 09-08-2009, 03:18 PM: Message edited by: Ecofem ]

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michan
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If you identify as straight, then yes you are straight.
However, I've talked about this before and I'm going to mention this again to you.
There is something I call the "Gay-Straight" scale.
It is a scale from 1-10.
1 being super straight and 10 being uber gay.
There are very few people who are either one or the other. Most people are somewhere in the middle.
For an example, me, I consider myself a lesbian but on the scale I'm probably about an 8.7-9.5
So you are probably close to a 1, but not fully there.
So don't worry, this kind of thing is completely normal.

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