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nickooooo
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im very sexually attracted to my freind and were both guys, we masturbated together but it was to girl on girl pornography, i want to do stuff with him but i dont no how to approach and it if he is ok with it or not, any help on how to open things up

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JamsessionVT
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Are you openly gay or bisexual? If so, is your friend aware of this?

Those are really the first things to think about. If the answer is yes to both, this will probably be a lot easier than if it's no.

How did you end up masturbating with him, if you don't mind my asking? Was this something you decided on together, or did one of you bring up the idea? Did he seem into the idea? (Too, it doesn't really matter what you looked at in terms of pornography; it's not an indication of what his sexual orientation is.)

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nickooooo
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no i am not, and i dunno he went on pornography on my comp and then things lead to things then , ya, but i im not sure what his sexual orientation is but if he is bi i would want to do stuff with him but i dont want to ask, then he gets all mad and tells everyone and stuff

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Well, is this a friend that you're close to and comfortable around? Or is this someone who would likely be taken aback by your request?

Only you can judge the situation. We don't know your friend or what his likely reaction will be. I'd go with your gut: obviously, you don't want to put yourself in a bad situation, so if your gut is he'd react negatively, I wouldn't approach it.

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