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Conscience-calmed
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I've identified as bi in the past, but am leaning more towards lesbian. I'm only attracted to ideal versions of men, whereas I'm attracted to women EVERYwhere.

Anyway, I've been with my girlfriend for a little over a year, and she's more on the straight side of bi. And she talks about men all the time. I feel really inadequate, as I'll never be a guy. She says there's no difference, but at one point told me she didn't know if she could be with a woman long-term.

Advice?

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Pyschedelia
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I`m pretty new here, so I`m no expert.

There`s definitely a couple questions you need answered here...
1) Do you see yourself in a long-term relationship with her?
2) Do you think she might eventually change her mind about being with a woman for a long-term relationship? Do you think you can help her change it?
3) Do you often talk about women you find attractive around her? Maybe she`s noticing attractive men because she feels threatened that you like people other than just her.

You need to tell her you how you feel about this.
<3333333 Good luck.

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