Ok here's the prob me and my friend well we're both gay guys proud and everything you know. But I never really get any crap for it but my friend does. Now the problem is is that he is coming to me asking me if i can scare them off or something I mean yea I feel bad and all I have spoken up for him but the rediculing just continues finally one day my friend snapped totally told them off and just literally attacked them when i finally got my friend off of them he just ran home or something not sure anyway i asked them why is it that you make fun of him? they responded was becuase he was gay etc. i just stared at them and said i'm gay too but i never get **** from it and nothing makes you justified to ridicule someone for their sexual preference etc. they said nothing as i approached them they backed away taking advantage of the situation i told them to make fun of me seeing that they were hesitant i asked why they responded that i was scary i didn't take this to any offense but i understand i am pretty scary when not smiling i mean picture me a 6'1 black clothing make up wearing gay guy with a devil lock hair cut but now here is the problem because he heard that they were afraid of me he is becoming exactly like me not being himself at all i know he hates not being himself he went from prep to goth i hate lables but in this case i will use them what can i tell him that will make him go back to being himself and not becoming my mini clone?
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