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I'm 17, and out bi. My best friend is the same way. We go to the same church, and over the last 2 years have grown extremely close. This summer we went on a work trip and shared the same bed, same van seat, everything, we were completely in-seperable. Thats when I relized I have a very strong crush on her. She has been with her boyfriend for almost 20 months now, and they love each other. I don't know what to do. I want to tell her, but then again I don't want to push her away. At this point just a kiss from her would be great, but i know that that can't happen right now? what should I do???

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I know the feeling.

But you have to realise that this will not happen for the reason taht she has a boyfriend.

You need to convince yourself of that. It's hard, but you have to to stop yourself getting hurt.

Do not push her, you may lose her as a friend. And you need to decide whether you can have her as a friend any more if these feelings strengthen.

Has she given you any encouragement?

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