For the record, what you're describing is not a fetish. A fetish is an inanimate object which is required for someone's sexual arousal or satisfaction. What you're describing is simply a sexual fantasy, turn-on or preference.
I'm not sure what would be "freakish" about liking to see any type of person involved in sexual play. Many people have voyeuristic tendencies, and often that involves watching others, or fantasizing about such, who would not be interested in sexual exhanges with them personally.
In the future, please don't start new topic threads to discuss existing ones.
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