I have a friend, who showed me it was ok not to be attracted to guys...She really helped me to become myself...corny as it may sound. I really like her, but for the past year she has been infatuated with this guy who is 13 years older than her. I really want to tell her how I feel, but I am afraid she has changed, and maybe wouldn't want to continue our friendship.
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really the best advice i can give you is to watch her and look for signs that she doesn't want to hang out with you anymore. that's what you're worried about, right? rejection b/c of relating your feelings for her? i worry about the same thing, but it really depends on the person. i've always found honesty to be the best policy, and i would probably tell her straight up how i feel about her. but if you think she might react unfavorably, then think it through a little, and see if there's another way.
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