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Can I know what was wrong with my reply in the post oral sex in sex basic and sexual health ?

Was it misinformation that I was not aware of or was it simply not complete/great enough ?


[ 01-31-2007, 05:11 PM: Message edited by: cool87 ]

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Cool, as our guidelines note, we never need to explain to anyone why a post is deleted or edited, and I have to be honest and tell you that coming and asking every time you have it happen seriously saps our time and energy. So, please let this be the last time, okay?

Sometimes when we just delete inaccurate or unhelpful posts it's merely because our time and bandwidth is best spent giving accurate and helpful information rather than also taking the time and bandwidth to correct the inverse. Plus, it can be confusing to a user who's asking questions to also have to follow back-and-forths between users and staff per correcting information in terms of them simply finding the helpful stuff, which is all is wanted.

To asnwer you this last time, flatly, it was callous, and in addition, vaginal wetness isn't always about arousal, so telling a user that if a vulva is wet his partner must be aroused isn't correct: during a coupple stages of the fertility cycle, women will have fluid discharges even when they're completely unaroused.

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