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I am only 12 and i'm ashamed of my virginity,
i've had 2 boyfriends that were 3 years older than me and 1 that was 5 years older than me because he thought i was 15!

People say i act more mature and look more mature than i am which to me is a compliment

but how can i slow my life down?

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I'm afraid that, as you likely know since you lied about your age when you registered here, we cannot let your account remain. US COPPA laws do not permit us to lawfully collect ANY information from anyone under 13 without a parents permission, including the email address required for registration.

So, following this post, we'll need to cut off your account.

But before we do that, know that if you're also lying to boys about your age like you lied to us, telling the truth about your age will help a lot with this. Too, you also get to choose who you go out with, and can choose to date people a lot closer to your own age who will be in a sexual place closer to yours, developmentally.

Also, understand that older boys KNOW that, which is often why they say that. It's a line they know works. So, how about using some real maturity and being a little wiser as to when someone is feeding you lines, and when someone is in earnest? I bet you can do that, as well as choose to live your life in a way that feels more comfortable.

Heather Corinna, Executive Director & Founder, Scarleteen
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