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... I don't mean what turns you on, but what makes you feel sexy>

For me it's black undies. They just make me feel good about myself.

How about you?


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I don't know if this really answers your question, but I have a pretty low self esteem and I really did when me and my boyfriend first starting having sex, but as time goes on, I actually feel better about myself and my body! I guess it's because you always hear stories about guys sleeping with girls, then leaving them and when my boyfriend didn't leave me (because of my {what I thought yucky) body) I started feeling better about my naked body around him!! I bet you don't hear that very often!

Aside from that, I'm going to have to go with my black lace thongs with the clips on the sides!!!!

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oh dear, i just blew off $60 at victoria's secret yesterday. i gotta say, i like silky cloth on my tush. pajama bottoms, panties, slips all of it.

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Ah Gumdrop, $60 isn't that bad...I'll confess to having dropped $150 there this week! But what can I say? I'm addicted to underwear and that semi-annual sale is almost better than Christmas!

Anyway, what makes me feel sexy? Nice underwear and pj's. Driving fast with the windows open and the radio turned up. Certain types of music and/or specific songs. Bubble baths and long showers. My boyfriend.

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wearing really pretty feminine underwear - i have this gorgeous set my friend got me for christmas, a purple bra with see thru ribbon straps and a thong that has ribbon ties on the sides.

also when i feel pretty, like when u go clubbing and spend hours on your make up and outfit and u just feel stunning!

also just after sex, lying in bed with my bf talking...it's just a nice warm, close feeling, cause i feel completely at ease being naked with him.

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quote:
Originally posted by KittenGoddess:
Anyway, what makes me feel sexy? Nice underwear and pj's. Driving fast with the windows open and the radio turned up. Certain types of music and/or specific songs. Bubble baths and long showers.


Ooh, same here! That, and clothes that make me look curvy. Hey, I actually kinda like my body.

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wearing a short skirt with sexy black nylon undies and watching guys head turn as i walk by.
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quote:
Originally posted by carol:
wearing a short skirt with sexy black nylon undies and watching guys head turn as i walk by.

Same here Carol I love wearing very short skirts with light colored panties so they can be seen and I also love the attention it brings about from both men and women

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Corsets.

Even though I don't have one. Yet. Just looking at one and imagining it on myself makes me feel incredibly sexy.

Feeling nothing between my body and my bed sheets.

And yes, driving somehow makes me feel very in control and feeling in control is always a very sexy feeling for me. Even though right now, I am driving with someone else always in the passenger seat. Lessons suck.


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whoo, lin, driving, good one!

i don't have a car of my own, so when i drive, it's always one of my dad's cars. my dad has a stunning array of Mercedes Benzes.

i remember summer of '98, one say i was driving around town. just graduated high school.i was mercilessly flaunting the new pair of breasts i had seemed to have grown overnight, tucked in a sheer, blue and white spaghetti-strapped sundress. sunroof open. cranking my favorite CD (Black Lab 'Your Body Above Me'). boys at the stop lights honking their horns, turning their heads. my friends, who were in the car with me, were in awe.

oh baby. i was hot that day.

i feel sexy when i get attention. like the everclear show (see my Village People thread)

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i'm not girly all that often, so when i do where a dress or a skirt they're good ones! because people don't see me too often not wearing boys shorts and thrift store shirts, it's a nice surprise when they see me dressed up so when i do, i somewhat feel sexy!
but what you've all been saying about your underwear and clothes, i agree but when i'm with ryan, either out or just cuddling and watching movies, his soft touch, him caressing me, that's what makes me feel sexy because i know that my far from perfect body is just another part of me that he likes!

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I would have to say silk undies make me feel sexy.. and tight low cut pants too. I get that Mariah Carey feeling walking through the mall in low jeans and a new belly shirt. Guys attention definitly helps. Getting a tan in the summer, wearing a new scent, and being around my boyfriend no matter what we are doing makes me feel sexy too.

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For me, it's when my boyfriend looks at me the same way as he did nearly a year ago, when he fought to be with me. (I was just stuborn.) Anyway, all in all I believe girls should always feel sexy, in what they're wearing underneth, to how they carry themselves. Afterall, it's all about self-confidence and additude. It's always working for me!
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- the smell of lipgloss or bay rum
- a sunny day with a great breeze
- garlic
- outdoor cafes
- tea-length skirts (on myself or others)
- raw silk
- shiny shoes
- sweat
- great poetry
- serious blues music
- laughter
- old-fashioned dancing...

...really, I could go on for ages, but you know, I'd have a ahrd time spearating what "turns me on" and what makes me feel "sexy," and a hard time finding things that give me those feelings that are only attached to me. It's such a big, big sphere, and so many things in life and sensually gratifying.

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what makes me feel sexy? well, that depends on my mood and the time of day! i love to just lay next to my b/f with our arms around each other, completely naked, right after we have had sex and are just talking. wearing silky black thongs drive me crazy! i just love 'em! singing my fave songs with my b/f is another thing that makes me feel sexy! wearing a new lacey bra is another obsession of mine!
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When I wake up in the morning in a good mood, spend 45 minutes in a steaming shower, get dressed in a knee-length black skirt and a maroon dress shirt, blowdry my hair, moisturize, pluck my eyebrows, put on my makeup, put on my high heels, and my boyfriend shows up unexpectedly, and looks at me with an awe "I want to take you now" look. That makes me feel sexy.
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man, i just got a new bathing suit today and it's a string bikini i got from hot topic and it's pink with silver stars and the string parts are black with silver in it.. man it's hot! that makes me feel really sexy and i can't wait til ryan sees it!

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Definitely driving. And the way my legs look in my highest stiletto heels. And me with curly hair. And me right after a kickboxing or self defense class. And the song "just the way you look tonight" while dancing with my boyfriend.

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~ grinding at dances (i love grinding, excuse for me to be close to guys besides my bf..} oooooo i'm so bad)
~ black panties for sure.....
~ the way my bf looks at me when i'm wearing those black panties
~ and sleeping with my kitty (not exactly the way it sounds but i hope you can not take it to the perverted level and get the idea


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the way that the right person looks at you, sleeping naked (or close to it) and of course..sexy underwear/sleepwear (especially satin or silk)
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I love feeling sexy; I love feeling happy; I love feeling. I have a few stand-out sexy things:

- the song "Crush With Eyeliner" by R.E.M...among many others
- how I feel after strenuous exercise. Unlike my friends, I don't feel the need to hide myself from the world when I'm sweaty and strawberry-colored.
- lip gloss, sandals, and sundresses.

And of course, summer makes me feel sexy.


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The song "Bootyliscious" By Destinys Child! and when my boyfriend kisses my back! Short shorts, smooth legs, pretty toe nail polish, and as me and my boyfriend would call it..."Lalaluscious Fun" (Use your imagination)
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-Singing
-Being on stage
-Cute cotton bikkin undies
-and cold air, don't ask.

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moonlit rides on racehorses in meh jammies! hehe...thats fun...cause my ex used to ride w/me *he lived on the grounds, neither of us even had to sneak around!* and it was so cute...galloping full-speed with the moon light over you...just enough to see each other...it's so nice...I miss that...

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Showering.... Especially when it's with my boyfriend. I don't know. I love the feeling of him working the shampoo and conditioner through my hair. And soaping up one another's bodies.

Also, when he went to Oz, he brought me back this Mambo Goddess underwear set that I am absolutely in love with. This little camisole and matching rollergirl-style panties with little gold, violet, and blue rollerskates on the front with "MAMBO GODDESS" printed over them. Very sexy....

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a BRIGHT colored THONG with a leather skirt or leather pants makes me feel like i could just do anything i wanted...like i could climb the highest mountain if i wanted... hehe but yeah a bright thong (that nobody will see. *wink* its a secrettt!) and leather skirt or pants....TIGHT ones at that...it makes me feel sooo amazing...plus wearing a tight tshirt without a bra...i love my boobies but i only go braless about once a month...i dont want my breast to be in the middle of my stomach by the time im 20 (im 14 and a 38 D...my back hurts...hehe)

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it makes me feel sexy when i sleep in my tank top and underwear. i don't know why, but laying in my bed, reading before i sleep i just get a kewl feeling inside like - o yea, im awesome.
it makes me feel good inside too.

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Well I feel totally sexy when im boxing at my boxing club, to have so much power when Im wearign my stomach top, shorts and my boxing gloves. I dunno its great. Also when Im wearing my school uniform, which is : blouse, white kneehighs, school kilt. and then i get the men staring and honkign the horns its great!

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i feel sexy when my best friend and i walk around town and watch the guys heads turn. She totally boosts my confidence everytime i see her.

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I feel sexy when i get a lovely 'Brazilian' wax and right after i shave my legs and slather on some victoria secret vanilla lotion. i feel sexy letting my curly long hair fall softly over my breasts...and yes yes...undies are very sexy and groovy but having NO undies is 10 times better in my opinion. i surprisingly feel very sexy wearing my boyfriend's whitey tighties and his dress shirts...somehow it makes me feel more womanly standing in front of him in his clothes. it's fun. oh oh...and when i do yoga and i'm stretching all my muscles and getting more flexible day by day...i feel so sexy.
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When i wear beautiful dresses that make me look all grown up and when i walk someplace and people are checking me out! also when i wear thong underwear or when me and this guy play strip poker and i feel absolutely comfortable being half naked in front of him. and...this doesn't make me feel SEXY but it makes me feel really good about myself: when my dad tells me that the woman who lives down the block says "cat is just growing up so fast and she's sooo beautiful!" and also when i've been crying over a guy or something, and i look at my red, teary face and eyes in the mirror and i say out loud to my reflection "you're so beautiful, no matter what anyone says!"
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I don't know if I've answered this or not, so pardon the redundancy if I have.

I feel sexy listening to Tom Jones or Santana. I feel sexy being naked, especially if I'm lying next to my bf and he rubs his hand all over my body. I feel sexy when I take a bath. I feel sexy when I wear velvet. (I have this great pair of dark blue velvet jammies I just love!) I feel sexy when I'm outside and the wind blows my hair. I feel sexy when my bf kisses me. Or when we dance (at a party or in the living room). Or even when he just looks at me the right way. I feel sexy after going down on him. I feel sexy if I get flowers (from a guy or a girl). I feel sexy when I know I look good.

I used to never feel sexy cause I didn't like my body. But I overcame my self consciousness, and now I can feel sexy even when I'm alone.

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i feel sexy when i sleep naked, when i wear thongs(any color, style--->slutty, revealing, with cartoons) or any kind of sexy lingerie, when i drive in my silver car with the windows down and the system up, when i get all dressed up, when i go to the restaurant and the waiters are all looking at me....thats all i can think of
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Wearing Victoria Secret's thongs
hot showers
staring into that *certain someones eyes*
driving w/ the sunroof down
massages

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ok, it's an old topic, but I love reading it, so I'm gonna bung it at the top of the list

I like sitting (alone), with a top on, no bra, and gently cupping my breasts under my shirt. Any music that makes me want to move to it. Watching gorgeous people, and (this took a year or so to realise! lol) knowing that poeple are watching me, and getting as much pleasure from it as I am looking at them.


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