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Sierra951
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Right. Well, this is going to sound extra silly, but I am literally more worried and scared than I have ever been in my life. I have been with my boyfriend now for quite sometime, but we have not had vaginal sex yet. We do "mess around" at times, and he is always very respectful. Well, a few weeks ago, my boyfriend ejacualted on my stomach and I am PARANOID beyond belief that I could possibly get pregnant from this. I know it only takes one sperm to make a woman pregnant, and sperm are the smallest living cells, so I'm worried somehow it could travel down there? I did wipe it off, and none of it dripped down there, so I should be fine, right? Heck, I even had my underwear on! And none of it got on them as far as I know. He knows not to touch me down there if there's even a possibility that he has any on his hands or fingers, and we always wash our hands with soap and water afterwards. So I'm okay right? There is no risk for pregnancy? My period should start any day now (I'm almost always irregular though) but I just can't sit around with this silly worry any longer. So, please tell me I'm crazy.

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Robin Lee
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HI Sierra951 and welcome to Scarleteen!

We ask everyone who visits with pregnancy questions to take a look at this link first; it has all kinds of information on what is and isn't a pregnancy risk, and why.

http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/027786.html

If you still have questions or concerns after that, come on back!

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Sierra951
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Okay that did give me some reassurance. Thank you. My partner did not ejaculalte on my private area, so there is no risk for pregnancy, correct?
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Robin Lee
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That's absolutely correct. [Smile]

How do you feel now?

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