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naners123
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hey guys. okay so in november my boyfriend(ex now)
we fooled around and he fingered me with precum. i know the risk is super low and if i was pregnant i would be like 23 weeks. i have gained a pound. but what concerns me is ever since this incident i have been tracking my periods like crazy. they last like 3 or 4 days and my cycle is from 25 to 28 days. so my last period was on march 27th through the 30th. it came a few days early. since november i have taken like 19 tests and they all have been negative. i am a worry wart i know lol. but now i think i am late for my period and so i am scared again. i am not over exercising or anything so idk why :/ please help!

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Karybu
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With that many negative tests, and several periods, you can be sure you are definitely not pregnant. (And it doesn't sound like you had any significant risk in the first place.)

Too, it doesn't actually sound like your period is late by much, if at all - it's normal for cycles to vary in length by a few days, so what you're experiencing doesn't sound like anything to be concerned about.

Per your anxiety around all this, have you considered talking to someone in person about it?

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naners123
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thanks karybu!!! and okay. so how sure are you that i am not pregnant? this guy asked me out. and i dont wanna say yes to him then find out i am prego. :/
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KittenGoddess
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If a pregnancy had begun in November, you would have missed periods and positive pregnancy tests by now. It would be highly, HIGHLY unlikely that you would be pregnant without those things happening. If you've taken 19 tests and are still concerned, it's time to see your health care provider about it.

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naners123
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okayy. so how safe am i?
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