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trpclmango
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Basically my boyfriend and I were together last night and we did something INCREDIBLY stupid; and I feel so dumb right now. I'll just explain what happened and go from there;

We were making out in his room and we both stripped down. He was in only his boxers but I still had jeans on. We made out on his bed and I gave him manual sex (handjob). He ejaculated onto his stomach and his forearm. About a minute or so later he put his hand in my pants and underwear and was rubbing me; he never actually inserted a finger in me but rubbed my entrance. After awhile I brushed my hand against my own stomach and noticed there was some semen on my stomach. I don't know if it ended up there when he originally ejaculated or if I leaned over and got some on me then. But I'm really worried that it may have gotten there when he originally ejaculated and that when he put his hand down my pants he may have gotten some semen on his fingers then came in contact with my vagina. Is there any possibility of this? An how high is the risk that I'll become pregnant because of it? He said he doesn't remember coming in contact with anything wet in my stomach.. but still. Please help! Again, I know this was incredibly stupid of us by please help!

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Karybu
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Have a look at this: Pregnancy Scared?

It should answer all your questions, but if it doesn't, let me know!

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trpclmango
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I did that before I posted, thanks though! My main concern is if my boyfriend did manage to get some semen on his hands then would it be possible for sperm to get into my uterus and fertilize an egg if he was rubbing the opening of my vagina with a finger that had semen on it?
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Karybu
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Unless his hand was dripping with semen, then there's really no viable risk. Manual sex (fingering) is generally risky in terms of infection, not pregnancy.

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Thank you so much. You don't know how much this has helped to put my mind at ease. Thank you again!
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You're very welcome. [Smile]

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