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clm1994
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Hey, so I had what I believe now was a lighter period about a week ago. I has slight cramps and back aches when I usually get really bad ones. I have slowly been losing weight though and I realized I am underweight now since I have lost muscle. I am worried because I had sex with my boyfriend once about 2 to 2 and half weeks before my bleeding. We did use a condom though and it didnt break or fall off. Also, I have taken 2 pregnancy tests, one about 7 days ago and other 2 days ago and they both came back negative. I know I am probably paranoid but I'd like to hear it from you that I am safe. You would just help a lot of you did. Thanks so much!
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I really do not see any plausible reason why you would be pregnant based on what you've posted here. First off, you've had a period, and that's a pretty sure sign you are not pregnant.
Also, on top of the fact that you didn't experience condom failure, you have had negative pregnancy tests.

I would encourage you to relax and trust the tests.

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Okay, thank you. i was just nervous because of implataion bleeding which i know is very rare but really, thank you. I just needed to hear it i guess.
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But the period was bright red blood for a few days with some brown blood.
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Implantation bleeding doesn't happen more than it does, and when it does show up is generally just spotting. It sounds like you had a slightly lighter than usual period, but still a period.

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okay, cause it was sorta on and off blood and brown. but thank you! the tests make me believe i wasnt

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And I can be sure the test are accurate, right?
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As long as you followed the directions and didn't test too early, then yes, you can trust the results.

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I had sex 3 weeks ago and read the directions and as far as i know did it correctly
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just kidding... it was 4 weeks ago. so am i safe to say im not pregnant with the negative results, and light bleeing??
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just kidding... it was 4 weeks ago. so am i safe to say im not pregnant with the negative results, and light bleeing??
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Yes, you can trust that you are not pregnant.

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Thank you so much. I was sure I'm not but I just wanted to be 100% sure. You guys are so helpful by the way. Thanks so much!
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