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DogLover
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ive been trying for a baby for quite a while now. with my last boyfriend we both really wanted a baby and he cumed in me like ova 15 times when we had sex. but i never got pregnant.
i thought maybe that was him because he smoked and drunk a lot so it could of been that which reduced chances of pregnancy. but with my new boyfriend im with now he has cumed in me during sex over 20times but i still have not become pregnant. some people get pregnant after one time. but ive had unprotected sex with the guy cumming in me like over 30 times and im not pregnant. does this make me infertile? or can it sometimes quite a few months to get pregnant?
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KittenGoddess
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Have you been to see your doctor yet? We recommend that any woman who plans to become pregnant head to her doctor first and get checked out. You really want to make sure that you are healthy before pregnancy. So let's start there.

Along with that, have you dealt with any of the other issues that Heather (and others) have been talking with you about in your other threads? Have you talked with the other people you are including in your parenting plan? Have you gotten your finances in order?

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DogLover
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yea i have that all sorted, i just need to know am i infertile if i havn't become pregnant after over 30 times of having unprotected sex with the guy cuming in me everytime, or can it sometimes take a few months to become pregnant?

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Heather
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...and this is the kind of thing you talk with that OB/GYN we keep stressing you see BEFORE a pregnancy.

By all means, you can char your own fertility daily, too. And yes, it often does take a few months for women to become pregnant, especially if they aren't trying at times they know they're most likely fertile through charting.

But that visit isn't minor, and it's care you'll need to establish for a healthy pregnancy. If you can't get that together, it's safe to say getting and keeping all the things you need to get together and sorted when there is a kid is probably unlikely.

As well, becoming a parent with a brand new boyfriend? That's something you're going to want to think long and hard about: it's unlikely you know this person well enough yet to have any sense of what kind of parent they are or will be.

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no iv known my boyfriend for years, we went out before in high school when we were kids but now we are older we decided to try again. ok so i am not infertile? i dno wen im most fertile and that though

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Heather
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We can't know anything at all about your fertility.

You can find out about that, as well as how to chart that, from the OB/GYN you choose to see, preferably BEFORE trying to become pregnant.

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ok

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