i had unprotected sex for the first time wit my bf of 19 months about 25 days ago. i havea fairly regular period and i tried to follow that rule of 14th day and an couple days before and after but now my period is late. i have been feeling a little sick but that could just be because i'm stressing myself out. i don't know what to do. i can't have it. i would need to abort it, but i'm 16. my parents can't find out because they would never trust me. his parents would cut his dick off. i need to know what to do if i need to abort it. i live in nj so i don' know what the laws are. what exactly do they have to do?
Posts: 20 | From: Basking Ridge, NJ, US | Registered: Oct 2000
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I'm sorry to tell you, sweetheart that the 14th day is a really good averaage day when many women are MOST fertile. There really are no solid "rules" for safe unprotected sex, other than it never is safe.
I would suggest that right now what you do is call your local Planned parenthood clinic and get a pregnancy test. They can tell you where to take it from there.
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