Me and my bf have been dating awhile and we tried to have sex a couple times and well he can't fit in my vagina. He has fingered me once and he could fit 2 fingers up there but when we tried having sex only the tip of his head would go up there and I kindof knew this would happen because I can't even fit a tampon up there. Someone plz tell me what's wrong with my vagina!!!
-------------------- I<3Gary Posts: 10 | From: United States | Registered: Jun 2011
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There is likely nothing wrong with your vagina. So take a deep breath, okay?
Whether or not you can easily use tampons also has nothing to do with how vaginal entry will feel, because the two have very little in common. During vaginal entry (as opposed to when inserting a tampon), you're ideally very aroused and relaxed, making entry a whole lot easier and smoother.
Now, when you were trying to have intercourse, were you aroused and relaxed? Had you engaged in some other activities before to make sure you were fully aroused? Were you using extra lube? Was your partner going slowly?
Also, what was the situation like? Did you have lots of privacy and free time without interruption? Were you anticipating pain, or were you totally relaxed? How comfortable do you feel with your partner?
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