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Idk what topic to put this under, please move this if need be.

haha I have been wondering weather I should post anything and I was feeling quite self conciois at the though, then u realised that I was on an online forum and no one can Link this back to me personaly lol
Anyway I have recently noticed that Ive had well... A desire for things, I'm only 14, I don't crush on guys. Well not anyone who I've accualy met, (I fantasise about being with sexy anime characters fufufu)
but.. Hmm I don't really know how to put this... I'm not being very helpful am I?
*sigh* well u guess the only way to explain it would be to call it a desire for sex, or maybe just a relationship. While I see it kind of impractical to have teenage romances because they don't last and often don't mean anything, But at the same time I have a strong desire to have someone by me who can hug me and such and give me a sense of protection. Where that sense of protection has been more relevant at other times, and I don't have such a need for it right now but I still want it. I'm very good at imagining and embrace bad various other thing Which only makes me want it more.
But I also get desires a bit stronger then that and the only thing I can think of doing is reading M15-R18 fan fiction or even doujinshi (fan made manga - I don't read the pg stuff either...) which only makes me want t more... Sorry I'm ranting aren't I?

I don't know what I'm asking for. Nor do I know why Im even posting this but scarleteen came to mind when I started noticing it. So yeah, but any kind of advice or well anything will be apreciated ^_^

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I don't know if I have any specific advice, but I would say that it's great that you're spending some time thinking about what you want and don't want when it comes to your sexuality and relationships. You may find this link helpful:

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What I am hearing is mainly: I have a strong desire to have someone by me who can hug me and such and give me a sense of protection. This is a very normal and natural desire for people and now that you are going through puberty it is starting to take on a new meaning beyond that of a parent or family member roles (I dont mean biologically related only). It now starting to have the meaning of wanting to have a partner with whom you both care for each other deeply. It is also very normal to fantasize about these feelings in a sexual way as well. Please read that article Coralee suggested; it is a great place to start! [Big Grin] Please let us know if there is anything more that we can help you with. [Smile]

[ 02-05-2011, 12:43 PM: Message edited by: OWL Dan ]


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its compleetly normal. with the guy thing its normal not to crush on any one from school, the guys you see on things like glee and twighlight are always going to look and act nicer than the ones at school - its a known fackt =P
what you might want to consider is to think about all the guys in you inglish class say and think 'who is the nicest to me'. they may not look amazing but they will be the ones who will hold your hand and tell you it will bo ok. thats what happend to me and you never know they might be perfect =)

with the desire for sex, have you considered marstabating. look it up on goolge and there are some easy ways. that will probly help.
hope I helped alitle =D

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