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homerunman
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Ummm...well...this is slightly embarrassing.
I'm 14, 8th grade, and kind of short. EVERYONE is taller than me. I hate it.
I also have this sneaking suspicion that all the other guys are longer than me. My buddy is always going off about his semen and how large his boner is, and I tolerate, its not that big of a deal for me, but it also gives me this feeling in the back of my head that I'm not just vertically challenged. My boner is a 3-incher, I turned 14 last month. Am I normal?
I haven't had any semen nor do I masturbate. At all.

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I went through a McDonald’s drive thru and said “I can has cheeseburger?” There was a pause before I heard “Nom Nom Nom” on the other end.

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Jill2000Plus
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Your friend may be lying, men can be rather prone to exaggerating their penis size. More importantly, 3 inches is within the normal range for someone your age and you still have plenty of growing to do so I wouldn't worry about it. And you know what? Some guys are short, some women are tall, we're all different and that's just fine. Per masturbation, there's nothing wrong with it and it's a healthy expression of sexuality but contrary to what you may have heard it won't make your penis either bigger or smaller beyond getting an erection which is temporary.

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Always knock before entering my room when I am in there alone, as I may be doing all sorts of wonderfully thrilling things that I'd rather you didn't see.

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homerunman
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thanks much....
now i have a little more weight off my chest.
one less thing to worry about!
phew.

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I went through a McDonald’s drive thru and said “I can has cheeseburger?” There was a pause before I heard “Nom Nom Nom” on the other end.

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Jill2000Plus
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I just want to add that size really doesn't matter, whether your penis is big or small or somewhere between those two it's communication skills and caring about your partner's enjoyment that make a good lover, and your penis is part of your body so appreciate it for all that it can do (give you sexual pleasure, allow you to direct your urine [Smile] ) instead of worrying about whether it's the right size.

You might like to check out this article

Shown Actual Size: A Penis Shape & Size Lowdown

[ 02-12-2010, 05:52 PM: Message edited by: Jill2000Plus ]

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Always knock before entering my room when I am in there alone, as I may be doing all sorts of wonderfully thrilling things that I'd rather you didn't see.

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marigold
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and of course (i'm not contradicting jill here, just writing down an evidence) you shouldn't ever feel pressured to masturbate if you don't feel like it yet (you mentioned not doing it in parallel with being short and the fear of having a small penis, so maybe you're worrying about this thing, too).

The most mature thing you can do is to honour your feelings and don't pressure yourself into things that you don't want to (but you have the right to want it, then we're in a different story).

chill [Smile]

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homerunman
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Thanks guys!
glad for the support!

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I went through a McDonald’s drive thru and said “I can has cheeseburger?” There was a pause before I heard “Nom Nom Nom” on the other end.

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