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Sugar rush fan
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I am 14 and i know that i am not allowed to have sex but i am so sexually frustrated. i just really want to have sex and if i don't soon i swear on my life i am going to scream. What should i do to get rid of this frustration? [Confused]

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twistgrl
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Im around the same age, and I seem sexually frustrated alot also. I wish someone could answer this becasue I dont have one. I get turned on easily and I sometimes hate it because I get really horney and there doesnt seem to be anything I can do about it. Any help out there? One of my friends says I should go get a guy to pleasure me but I am not going to do that.
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Sugar rush fan
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My friends say the exact same thing but i can't do that because i am attracted to girls. OHHHHHHHHHHHH someone help us two please. Wow i thought that i had a really dirty mind but i guess i am not the only one, not that i am saying that you have a dirty mind or anything because you don't, well at least i don't think you do anyway, i'm just going to stop there!!!!!!!! (SORRY)

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-Lauren-
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There is an awesome, 24/7 resource available to you both to cure sexual frustration:

Masturbation

You never need a partner to relieve your sexual needs. Your friend was mistaken. Lots of women hold masturbation as the most satisfying form of sex they have, myself included.

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Sugar rush fan
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But i don't really know how to do it and it sounds dirty.

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logic_grrl
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Hey, you've all got hands [Big Grin] .

Seriously, your body doesn't know the difference between your hands and someone else's hands (or any other body parts).

So if all you want is to get off, masturbation can meet your sexual needs just fine.

{Hey, Miss Lauren beat me to it!}

[ 08-30-2006, 01:44 PM: Message edited by: logic_grrl ]

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-Lauren-
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The bold word in my response is an article on the main site; give it a click. It answered a lot of my questions when I first came here. [Smile]
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Sugar rush fan
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do you have to cut your finger nails and where abouts do you stick your fingers?

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It shouldn't sound dirty. It's just you getting to know your body and your sexuality better. And it'll also be useful to be familiar with your own sexual responses when you are ready to have sex with other people.

Also, it's hella fun. [Smile]

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Sugar rush fan
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yeah but where do you stick your fingers?

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-Lauren-
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Have you read the article I linked you to above, Sugar?
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Sugar rush fan
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yes and i totally understand where now but do i have to cut my finger nails because i don't think there is anything in there thattells you about it. Thanks again.

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logic_grrl
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The genitals are pretty delicate and sensitive. So if you find you're scratching yourself uncomfortably or your nails are getting in the way, then sure, you might want to trim or file your finger nails.

But there are plenty of women with long nails who masturbate just fine.

We've got some other articles you should check out as well:
Pink Parts: Female Sexual Anatomy

Sexual Response and Orgasm: A User's Guide

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