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wooooh!!!
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Hi, I just wanna ask a few questions. Ok I recently gave my boyfriend a handjob and he came on his trousers. Then about five minutes later I had dry sex with him. We were both fully clothed and he came again then. This was the day after my last period ended. So here are my questions :
Is there any chance that I could be pregnant if his sperm soaked through? Like I dont really know if it did or not. And is it even possible for sperm to soak through two pairs of jeans? It sounds like a kinda stupid question but I get really worried about this kinda thing. My boyfriend and my friends have assured me that its not possible at all for me to be pregnant but I just want a bit more info on it. So thanks in advance to everyone who replies :-)

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Karybu
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Denim is pretty thick fabric, and it's highly unlikely that sperm could get through two layers of it. I don't see a pregnancy risk here. (In the future though, just have him wear a condom, and you won't have to worry - makes for easier cleanup too. )
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Thanks :-)
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I havent got my period yet though and it should have come a few days ago. And I never miss it and its usually early rather than late :-(
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Karybu
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If your period is late, you can take a pregnancy test now and have it be accurate.
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But is there really any point in taking one if theres almost no risk of pregnancy like you said earlier? I know I'm contradicting myself and everything but anyway. Could my period be late because I've been worrying about this a bit?
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The point in taking a test would be to confirm that you are/are not pregnant, since that is what your original post was worrying about.

However, now that you do know the risk was very slight, it's up to you to shell out the $10 for additional peace of mind or leave it at that.

And yes, your period can end up being late because you're worrying about it being late. Kind of frustrating, but true.


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this post is for user "wooooh!!!", becuase i had EXACTLY same sitaution with my bf a week ago, where we had dry sex fully clothed. (he was wearing boxers, jean and i was wearing underwear and jean) and now i'm about 4 days late for my period, i'm worried as hell. i know it is hard for the sperm to get through two layers of cloth, but can you please tell me if you ever got your periold after? and how many was it late for? thankyou so much if you can respond me asap.
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Heather
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Really, it's not hard. It's impossible.

You have not had a pregnancy risk. Chances are very good that the reason your period is late is due to worry that you did. So, do yourself a favor and find a way to calm down and relax.

What might help with that is a talk with your partner about how comfortable you are and are not with sexual activity right now, per your own knowledge about your actual risks and those risks on a practical level.


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quote:
Originally posted by curiosity:
this post is for user "wooooh!!!", becuase i had EXACTLY same sitaution with my bf a week ago, where we had dry sex fully clothed. (he was wearing boxers, jean and i was wearing underwear and jean) and now i'm about 4 days late for my period, i'm worried as hell. i know it is hard for the sperm to get through two layers of cloth, but can you please tell me if you ever got your periold after? and how many was it late for? thankyou so much if you can respond me asap.

I got my period!!! And it was only about 3-4 days late. I'm sooo happy :-)So try not to worry too much. I'm sure yours will arrive soon too if its late :-)


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i got my period today, i'm so relieved. =)
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YEAY FOR PERIODS! lol

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(October Baby, given this thread is 8 months old, I'm not sure why it was worth bumping with that comment? Continuing old threads is fine if they fit a question or elaborating you want comments on, but bumping topics just for the sake of saying something clutters up the boards. Please use caution when posting, okay?)

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