I'm 14 and i've had my period before. I'ts sometimes irregular but it's skipped for 6 months and so my mom is taking me to the doctor. She said they will be able to tell if i've had sex or not and i haven't but i'm just wondering if they will say something because i've been fingered before. Please answer quickly cause my appointment is Thursday!
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The doctor cannot tell whether you've had sex or not. The doctor can ask you, and it's always best if you're honest, but there's no real true sign as to whether or not someone is sexually active.
If you're worried about your mom knowing that you've been 'fingered', why not go into the doctors appointment yourself? You're certainly old enough, and this way you can be completely honest with your doctor without worrying about what your mother will think/say.
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