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liketostayundercover89
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Yea,
My penis curves a little to the left and i was just wondering the best way to tell my girlfriend. Whether i should just let her find out for herself or should i inform her before we do anything??? plez help (fast)

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Heather
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There's no news to break here.

Most penises have some sort of curve to them when erect. For that matter, the vaginal canal is never straight either: it's always curved.


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ScreamInEcstasy
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everyone has imperfections. Honestly, i think the best thing is to just not say anything at all. If she likes you for you shes not gunna be like WHAT THE HELL? and if she does question it, just brush it off be like " haha i dunno! i dont compare to others!" Worst case scenario: she says something like EW !Thats WEIRD. reply with something like : yours doenst look like the ones ive seen in magazines(even if u dont look at thoes) itll make her think and realize she should get over it and everyones different.

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wobblyheadedjane
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However, a curved penis isn't an imperfection - it's perfectly normal.

And perhaps I'm sensitive to when it happens to me, but turning around a negative comment like that to your partner ("Yeah, well yours doesn't look porn star perfect either!") isn't the way to foster a healthy relationship.


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ScreamInEcstasy
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quote:
Originally posted by wobblyheadedjane:
However, a curved penis isn't an imperfection - it's perfectly normal.

And perhaps I'm sensitive to when it happens to me, but turning around a negative comment like that to your partner ("Yeah, well yours doesn't look porn star perfect either!") isn't the way to foster a healthy relationship.


I didnt mean it as litterally imperfect. I just ment not what most closed minded people would call "average", something different to what people expect(sadly).
And i didnt mean the pron star thing as a litteral comment, like you dont have to say it like that to start a fight i just ment talking about it (only if she reacts wildly, that is....which if she does that isnt a very healthy relationship anyways) TAlk about it like, "think about the pictures in playboy, not all girls look like that so am i supposed to look like every other guy? " It doenst have to be !! just a point of conversation not a fight.

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I'm not seeing where you think I fight is being started.

The moderators on this board were chosen because they have a history of being polite, knowledgible and courteous towards the users on the board. wobblyheadedjane was not being rude or trying to start a fight. She was polite and pretty frank about things. If you have a problem with an individual, please send an email to boards@scarleteen.com


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