well ill get straight to the point.. i keep getting this feeling inside of me when boys talk dirty to me or touch me around my private part .. both up and down. this happens all the time its in my belly area. its an uncomfortable feeling like a knot and it makes me feel sick after a while. is it because im nervous or uncomfortable ? i dont know what it is ? does anyone else experience this ? any help welcome .. Posts: 52 | From: UK | Registered: Jun 2005
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i know how you feel. i also get that feeling sometimes when my boyfriends touches me near those areas. it maybe because you are nervous becasue you might not have experienced it before.
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Experience doesn't necissarily have anything to do with it, peachesz*n*cream, though it can, general nervousness about any sexual activity can cause feelings of unease and like stomach sickness.
If when you're being touched or spoken to you feel this, you should tell whoever is doing it to stop, because while nervouseness can come up when you're first trying sexual things or first trying them with a new partner, you shouldn't have to feel uneasy to the point of feeling ill, and it is definitely not a feeling you want to relate with sexual experience.
Chances are your body is telling you what may not be so clear to you in your mind- you aren't ready yet; and that's perfectly fine. Just tell whoever you're with to slow down and to lay off, and if they don't stop, then you need to be prepared to stop the relationship because you should not be forced into anything you aren't completely ready for.
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