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babygurl13 Activist Posts: 32 |
Okay then: My name is Becka...im 13 yrs old and 12wks pregnant...not much interesting going on right now....Went to babies r us last night to pick up the babes crib and dresser and fell in love with baby outfits so not only did we pick them up but I bought two outfits...none of this seems remotely interesting now that i write it down...I started painting the stars on the wall of the babies room because i had too much time on my hands because my mom said that i could take today off b/c all the other schools had off due to snow...I miss being in a regular school.My Friends arent here to talk to. Oh well....I got in a fight with my older brother T.J. because he wanted the stars to be like the Christmas stars and i wanted them to be 5 point stars...i won due to it being my baby and because im stubborn....I started thinking about how im going to ffed it.I want to breastfeed but i dont know if it will work because my breasts arent fully developed and very small..anyone have any suggestions..i am trying desperatly to avoid formula as i cant stand the commercialism,the lies the company implants in new mothers heads, and it is the absolute best thing for the babe....My boyfriend(Ryan) went out and bought me a couple of outfits and the baby some clothes..another reason i love my parents they let my boyfriend stay around and are not angry or do they resent him even though he is 3 years older than me (16)...Ryan gave me a kind of like promise ring..which he says is a promise that as soon as we are both old enough we will get married....which i will we are still together....that is all for now as i NEED to get my self some popcorn TTFN IP: Logged |
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Milke Activist Posts: 5122 |
http://www.lalecheleague.org/ I'm not sure where you're located, but tthe La Leche League should be able to help with breast feeding. This page has links to lots of chapters in lots of areas, and general FAQs and the like, too. I'd say breastfeeding's preferable over formula simply because if it's possible it's much healthier, but if you can't manage to breast feed, you should feel no guilt about doing what it takes to keep your baby nourished. ------------------ Why don't you find out for yourself? IP: Logged |
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babygurl13 Activist Posts: 32 |
Its been awhile since i have updated on this so... I am now 18 wks pregnant and found out im having a .......................:smile:GIRL! I am very excited about it! Is it Wrong for me to preffer a girl? A boy would have been nice as well but i was drawn more to the prospect of having a girl. I guess it will be easiier to raise her as i have dealt with little girls before. I will be able to breastfeed her unless i have extremely rare cirumstances which i am really happy about. The babies room is finished.It is absolutely beautiful. TTFN Rebecca IP: Logged |
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16dadtobe Neophyte Posts: 5 |
becka...even though you are standing over my shoulder and reading this as i type i am going to respond....I wanted a a boy!(j/k..i love the baby either way)....yes we will have the most spoiled baby in the neighborhood....umm dont know else to say except i love you!Cya...yep i do see ya as you are right beside me! Ryan ------------------ IP: Logged |
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britt0285 Activist Posts: 86 |
aww...you guys seem to be really sweet to each other. Good Luck with your pregnancy!
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Daydreamer24 Advocate Posts: 1619 |
yes, good luck and mucho congrats ryan and becka.
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babygurl13 Activist Posts: 32 |
My best friend came out of the closet today...I am happy for her for coming out..I love her all the same..she said she knew for about a year but she didnt want to tell me because she was afraid i wouldnt want to be her friend any more....I told her that I still love her all the same and that I wouldnt stop being her friend over that....she is an awesome person...it doesnt matter to me...i asked her who does she want to not know and she said she doesnt care who knows she is who she is and if somebody cant accept that then thats their problem......Her parents find out this evening so we will see how that goes....im going to go with her for support... All my love Becka IP: Logged |
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babygurl13 Activist Posts: 32 |
ugghh! I got no sleep last night..none whats so ever ..a layed there and counted the noches on the ceiling....ugh it sucks im so tired and i tried taking a nap and i cant get to sleep.....I think that one factor of why i cant sleep is eveytime i lay down this daughter of mine decides to do the can can........ Ryan and I started to think of names and so far this is what we have come up with: Fiona Ugh! to many names...lol Becka ------------------ IP: Logged |
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cupcake Activist Posts: 433 |
I think we should all cast votes! :P I'm partial to Fiona myself
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babygrrl13 Neophyte Posts: 12 |
ok This is still babygurl13 but i messed with my email address and cant get the password so now i had to change the username....... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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britt0285 Activist Posts: 86 |
You know becka, you must be a really strong person to be 13 and pregnant. You are a much braver person than I am. My mom was pregnant with me when she was 15 and its cool even tho its not ideal. She is fun to hang out with, and people always think we are sisters. I hope that everything is going okay for you and good luck with your pregnancy. I think Fiona is a pretty name too. IP: Logged |
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babygrrl13 Neophyte Posts: 12 |
awww thank you....I dont really think of myself as brave, I just did/do what i think is right for me...abortion was never an option as my family is prolife...while im prochoice...so that would have caused a big problem...and i cant imagine someone else raising MY kid...plus I(and Ryan) want this child...so im basically just doing what is right for me...I never thought of myself as brave...I wont say i dont think im strong as i know im a very strong person...but i never thought of myself as brave......anyway thankyou............im now put in a very lovely/touched mood......thankyou Becka ------------------ IP: Logged |
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16dadtobe Neophyte Posts: 5 |
You are a very strong woman!!! As we discussed my favorite names in order are as follows: Kennadi \ these 2 are equal Luv ya sweets! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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babygrrl13 Neophyte Posts: 12 |
hey your online!!!Did you get my email? About the names...you dont count silly!! I already asked you! How does this sound since Fiona both of our's top favorite name and you like it...that will be her first name and since Kennadi is another of your fave names and i like it that will be her middle name? so it will be Fiona Kennadi.....how does that sound? xxxx IP: Logged |
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Miz Scarlet Sexpert Posts: 19846 |
Becka, You need to contact me via email regarding a matter I think you'd rather not have addressed at the boards publicly. Please do so before posting again. You can reach my personal email at: hcorinna@aol.com ------------------ My epitaph should read: "She worked herself into this ground." IP: Logged |
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