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Miller311 Activist Posts: 47 |
posted 03-03-2002 12:58 PM
  
Id like to go on the pill because i have sex, but im not sure how that would affect my body. The last thing i want is to get fat! IP: Logged |
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kythryne Advocate Posts: 1685 |
posted 03-03-2002 01:26 PM
Honestly, this is one of the worst possible reasons to not take birth control pills. Would you prefer to risk an unwanted pregnancy rather than take the chance that you might gain a few pounds? I'd certainly hope not. And while older forms of oral contraceptives did frequently cause minor weight gain (we're talking 5-10 pounds, which really isn't anything to worry about!) most modern birth control pills do not. Check out these links: Also, remember that oral contraceptives do not protect against STDs, so you still need to use some form of barrier protection while having sex. Here's an article that tells what to use when: Safe, Sound & Sexy ? A Safer Sex How-To ------------------ "The only unnatural sexual act is that which you cannot perform." [This message has been edited by kythryne (edited 03-03-2002).] IP: Logged |
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The Shy One Activist Posts: 94 |
posted 03-03-2002 04:09 PM
Well, you would gain more weight by getting pregnant, than you would from taking birth control pills. That's my two cents. IP: Logged |
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Kite Activist Posts: 127 |
posted 03-03-2002 04:17 PM
Kyth, I respectfully disagree with you. Being afraid of gaining weight is one of the worst possible reasons to not practice any method of birth control whatsoever. However, if somebody already uses a reliable contraception method and is thinking of switching to the pill for convenience's sake, I don't think there's anything wrong with taking everything into account while making the decision. Don't you think? (Of course, I don't know whether Miller already uses some form of contraception or not, and I think you posted some interesting urls IP: Logged |
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LilBlueSmurf Sexpert Posts: 5209 |
posted 03-03-2002 04:40 PM
I think what Kyth was trying to say (but i could be wrong!) was that gaining weight can't be the only reason to not take the pill. You have to weigh the 'pros and cons'. If you have more cons than pros, maybe the pill isn't for you. Are you using any sort of contraception now? This is defineatly something that needs to be talked about w/ your partner, maybe an older relative that you trust and probably your doctor. IP: Logged |
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kythryne Advocate Posts: 1685 |
posted 03-03-2002 04:50 PM
Kite and Smurfie, you're both right, actually.  If you're using some other highly reliable form of contraception, and just want to switch to the pill because it's easier, then yes, weight gain might be an issue you'd want to consider, along with the rest of the other pros and cons you need to discuss with a healthcare practitioner before starting oral contraceptives. But, if that's not the case, and oral contraceptives are going to be the best option for you, then you really shouldn't let the thought of gaining a few pounds stand in your way. Bottom line: talk to a medical professional, and discuss your reproductive healthcare options. Planned Parenthood clinics are a great way to get birth control of all varieties, and they usually offer a sliding scale for teenagers and people with low incomes. http://plannedparenthood.com And this might be helpful:
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Gumdrop Girl Sexpert Posts: 11271 |
posted 03-03-2002 07:39 PM
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum2/HTML/000875.html A big thread about weight gain and the Pill. Please read it. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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glitter695 Activist Posts: 1976 |
posted 03-04-2002 04:29 PM
To tell you the truth Sara (Miller311) thats what most people are scared about when they first start taking the pill. I have this little booklet that has Q & A and one of the questions were:
quote: Does that help a little more?? ------------------ Monk N Bear~ Best Friends Forever! ~Luv ya babe! *~*Scarleteen Advocate*~* “One ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” Heather Corinna IP: Logged |
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Miller311 Activist Posts: 47 |
posted 03-04-2002 05:13 PM
Well when i have sex, i always use a condom.. so i was never really worried that id get pregnant, even with that slim chance of it actually happening. Im just very self concious and am alwqays worrying about my body and what i look like. My older sister lost wieght on it, i just dont want to gain... and plus how do i go about asking my mom about all this?
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glitter695 Activist Posts: 1976 |
posted 03-04-2002 05:27 PM
Well you could calmy bring it up to her. Tell her that you think you are ready and you want to take responsiblity for your actions. You can also make an appointment for Planned Parent Hood. There is one right it North Tonawanda. Hay I will even go with ya if ya want me too. Here check out there web site Planned Parent Hood Site ------------------ Monk N Bear~ Best Friends Forever! ~Luv ya babe! *~*Scarleteen Advocate*~* “One ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” Heather Corinna IP: Logged |
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Miller311 Activist Posts: 47 |
posted 03-04-2002 05:46 PM
Thanks erica your seriousley being a huge help.. If i go to planned parenthood, my mom wont find out? But in a way i want her to know. Im just afraid she might think im to younge to be having sex and then be mad at me. ya know? were you scared when you asked your mom? IP: Logged |
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glitter695 Activist Posts: 1976 |
posted 03-04-2002 07:19 PM
Planned Parent Hood is all confidential. They are not allowed to say anything. They have a special way to get a hold of you and everything if they need to talk to you about something. I only went to Planned Parent Hood once, and that was to get the morning after pill. Everything was kept secret. Was I scared to talk to my mom? Yes, and I was so scared that I didnt go to her. I was only 16, and I knew she wouldnt go for it(or at least thats what I thought). She always told me to come to her whenever I was ready, but I just was to scared I couldnt do it. When my mom found out it was hell, seriously hell, and I totally regret not talking to my mother first. My mom told my dad, and the whole thing was a mess, my father wouldnt talk to me for 4 MONTHS!! I am lucky I have a boyfriend who stood by me, and understood everything. After awhile she chilled out a little. I dont know what made her decide it was finally okay for me to get on birth control and have sex. I am glad that you want to talk to your mother first, it makes things a lot easier. If you do decide to go to your mother, maybe she will get a little mad, but you know what? I bet you that she will be so thrilled that you went to her first! Its a wonderful thing when you can confide in your mother, so if you think you can handle it, go for it! ------------------ Monk N Bear~ Best Friends Forever! ~Luv ya babe! *~*Scarleteen Advocate*~* “One ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” Heather Corinna [This message has been edited by glitter695 (edited 03-04-2002).] IP: Logged |
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