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overwhelminglust
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From: WestChester, Ohio, United States
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posted 01-20-2005 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for overwhelminglust     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh sweetie of course fourteen isn't too young ^_^ I was questioning myself way earlier than that so no worries, go with your heart. smiles!

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Estrashtia
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posted 01-22-2005 11:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Estrashtia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, I don't think 14 is too young, just be sure that you really know what you're feeling! When I was 14 I thought I was a lesbian because I had a crush on this girl, and so I came "out" then I realized I was like guys too, but my point is, don't make any hasty choices, unless your REALLY sure.

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tan15
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posted 01-26-2005 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tan15     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Um im 15 and confused about my sexuality....like, i like guyz but i can also find girls attractive to.....but i could never picture myself doin stuff with another girl?? but if i picture myself as a guy i can picture myself doin stuff with another girl...someone plz help me?!?!

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MentholClouds
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posted 01-26-2005 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MentholClouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, Im 14 also, and in the exact same situation. I, personally, think that you are born with the draw to the opposite sex, or in our case, same sex.
I am also considered mature for my age. I was wondering if you would like to talk more in dept with me on this subject.
Im always looking to help.

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N
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posted 02-16-2005 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for N     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Um im 15 and confused about my sexuality....like, i like guyz but i can also find girls attractive to.....but i could never picture myself doin stuff with another girl?? but if i picture myself as a guy i can picture myself doin stuff with another girl...someone plz help me?!?!"

I'd say this sounds pretty familiar to me. I'm a man, and consider myself bi, and one of my standard fantasies is that I'm a woman doing stuff with a man.

Sounds like you could be bisexual by both the modern meaning (attracted to both men and women) and another meaning (feel like you have aspects of being both a man and a women). Hey, there are some male-female couples who both fantazise about both being of the other sex.

I think human sexuality is a lot less "boxed in", and a lot more fluid, than most people imagine. But then I've been told lots of bi people think that. ;-)

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yet_2b_known
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posted 05-20-2005 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yet_2b_known     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i too am 15 i know now that im gay and i knew when i was 14 and before so no it isnt too young but like other have said dont just get setteled in staying with this just yet we all grow

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