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Lost_Blue_Angel Neophyte Posts: 26 |
posted 03-20-2003 06:56 AM
  
Hi, i'm 17 years old and last april i suffered a miscarriage-it was hard at first getting over it and now it's coming up to the year annerversary itsvery hard but i found a site that helped me understand a bit more about it-- and it stopped me asking myself 'WHY?' all the time. httP://www.tommys.org IP: Logged |
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Worldz Endz Neophyte Posts: 3 |
posted 03-21-2003 06:49 PM
I have a thing about saying sorry.. i dont like to hear it so i dont say it, but i strongly believe in fate and i think that if u were meant to have the baby you would have had it.. and again thats my beliefs talking...Im only 14 but my friend had a miscarriage a few months ago.. she got into a fight with another girl and she waslike 5 months preg. and so she went to the bathroom and kept bleeding and bleeding and she had to give birth to the dead baby because her parents never knew she just kept wearing baggy clothing and gainin weight everywhere.... Luv always~Danni ------------------ *Bisexuality is everywhere... embrace it* IP: Logged |
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Blindfolded Neophyte Posts: 5 |
posted 04-15-2003 05:33 PM
I had a miscarriage at two months almost 2 years ago, its very difficult and even my loving partner (at the time, we are no longer, he turned out to be not loving) couldn't understand. The best help I found was through my Mum, she had had a miscarriage only a few months before mine, and understood the emotional turmoil. And although I do believe in fate to a certain extent, and in retrospect realise that I would have been a no good mother (being a very immature 16 year old) I would have gone crazy if someone had said that to me at the time. All in all its something you have to deal with. As I read on here posted by someone else, it's a big part of reproduction. If you think that you can really not deal with the anniversary, try a doctor for a short course of anti-depressants or a counseller maybe, for some help in learning to deal with it. IP: Logged |
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a_c_munson Activist Posts: 94 |
posted 04-16-2003 10:59 AM
A miscarriage is a loss. It doesn’t matter if it was the wrong time for you or you were too young. You lost something that can not be replaced. It is ok to greave. IP: Logged |
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froggygirl14233 Neophyte Posts: 21 |
posted 04-21-2003 10:23 AM
i am only 13 and i have had a miscarriage and it is hard to deal with but thenone day you forget that it even happened . but know i am have a baby again. IP: Logged |
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Shann2002 Activist Posts: 121 |
posted 04-22-2003 02:46 PM
Miscarriages are hard for many women. I myself haven't had one, but i know of a gurl who had one before she even knew she was pregnant, which is not uncommon. Shouldn't this thread be in support groups? ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Aria51 Advocate Posts: 1279 |
posted 04-22-2003 05:35 PM
There is already an old miscarriage discussion in Support Groups. It can be seen here: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum9/HTML/000040.html I think this topic fits pretty well where it is, because miscarriage is a real and very common part of pregnancy. IP: Logged |
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lucky1 Neophyte Posts: 6 |
posted 05-19-2003 06:43 PM
hey, i know how you feel girls. i got pregnant one night, that i didnt remember and i was 15. when found out, i was devistated but i also wanted to be the best mom i could and give that child anything. 2 months later i lost that child. i think about it everyday. its hard to go on, but we need to. thanks for everyones support. IP: Logged |
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