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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Izza_Bella: [QB] Hey...what you went through when you were younger with your brother was really awful-I'm really sorry about that. I was also sexually abused when I was younger and I just want to say that maybe you haven't come to grips with it yet. I mean, I didn't even think about it until I started to get involved in dating and intimacy. You may not feel the need now to get some counseling but with my experience-the time will definitely come. About your guy, your experiences as a child might have given you a false outlook on what a relationship should be or how a guy should be treating you hence, your reason for being nervous when you mess around. You're probably wondering, "ok, when is he going to pull a bloody knife on me?" or maybe its only present in your subconscious. I dunno, that's just what i think. I think you definitely need to deal with your experiences by yourself before you get intimate. If you choose not to than yes, tell your guy about what happened to you I'm sure he will understand.I hope this helped. [/QB][/QUOTE]

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