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Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. UBB Code™ Images not permitted.	[QUOTE]Originally posted by struggling: [QB] So yesterday, I finally told my mom I'm sexually active. Maybe not all the Gorey stuff but hey its a start. To top it off I started asking for the help I need. But those weren't the best parts. Have you ever had one of those "Ah HA!" moments? Well I finally did. Here is what I wrote- "I dont know whats more awkward. When they (my parents) know (that I was going to have sex) before even you do oooorrrr assume that everything you do is planned and you set out to achieve these "horrendous goals." Life is all about choices that's for sure, but not all of those choices are ones you decide under massive planning/thought. If life was planned where would the "fun" be in that? Good or bad- its just living. All you can do is take things as they come and hope for the best. I don't want to regret the choices I've made. So why not learn from them or just enjoy them" Basically what I realized today is that I finally don't "feel bad" about my sexuality or choices and that while my mom may regret her choices that doesn't mean I have to regret mine or feel like I'm a bad kid for deciding something else. I feel comfortable with who I am and MY choices and that's what matters most. As for mom. You may never read this but. I am SO proud of YOU and to be your daughter. You took that better than I could of ever imagined considering how tough your life has been. Don't worry still going to college, using safety measers, and loving life! <333 [/QB][/QUOTE]

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