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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. [QUOTE]Originally posted by Roses are Free: [QB] I have been dating my boyfriend for a few months and love him dearly. Just recently, I've been introduced to his friends. I am happy about this because I want to be close to his family and friends and to respect them; however, I've seem to run into a problem. One of his best friends became quite close to me lately. Might I also mention that this friend is married. He started talking to me online, innocently, and mostly discussing my boyfriend. I had no problem with this. Eventually, we became greater friends and started sharing our likes/dislikes with one another. Again, I was fine with this, as was my boyfriend. As time progressed (and I don't even mean a long period of time, just a week or so), he started complimenting me. He eventually started calling me hot and sexy, and complimenting my personality. He also calls me cute little names. I was a bit startled at first. Despite my worries of ruining their friendship, I told my boyfriend. I didn't feel right NOT telling him. My boyfriend basically told me he can be flirty. He didn't seem too upset. He did tell me to watch in case it got worse, though. So, I brushed his comments off as compliments. The more I think about this, though, the more I find it very wrong. He has a wife. I have a boyfriend. I am not interested in this man at all beyond friendship. This doesn't seem like normal behavior from a married man to me. I just need advice. I don't know how to handle this. What am I supposed to say to his friend and to my boyfriend? I don't mind being this guy's friend, but I think he needs to realize there are boundaries. I know I am going to talk to him less often now, but how do I handle the fact I will be seeing him a lot simply because he's one of my boyfriend's best friends? [/QB][/QUOTE]

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