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Post A Reply Login Name: Password: Message Icon:                                                                       Message: HTML is not enabled. UBB Code™ is enabled. [QUOTE]Originally posted by StarHallie: [QB] My ex-boyfriend smoked too. He was the "i drink i smoke" type: he'd smoke a cigarette or two when he was drinking. I, just like you, had a huge problem watching the man I loved put all that yucky stuff in his body...not to mention how stupid he looked with a cigarette in his hand. I learned just not to be in a situation where I had to watch him smoke...AT ALL. That meant I never went to the bar with him...I never went to his friends' houses whom I knew he'd smoke (pot or cigarettes) with...and if he really wanted me to go with him, we had an agreement before we left the house that he wouldn't engage in those activities. If he really wanted to be with me, he'd make that sacrifice so that we could hang out. It's really a matter of priorities for your guy: if smoking is more important to him, tell him you'd rather not go with him that night. This isn't really an ultimatum, because you aren't asking him NOT to do anything: you're just simply stating, "If ya wanna smoke, I'm going out with my girlfriends tonight instead. If you want to hang out with me tonight, please respect my feelings." Then, he can choose. :) [/QB][/QUOTE]

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