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Member # 26261
posted 11-22-2005 12:24 AM
ok, I just got one question to ask you guys. I found this site the other day and wanted to try it out. OK My girlfriend which i have been going out with for almost 2 years. I just wanted to know whats going on . She told me that we needed to take a break, so i said ok whatever makes you happy. So we still talked but we wernt going out. While we were taking a break i went and talked to her and she just started to hold my hand and just attack me and started to kiss me. I was like whoa. What does this mean? Later we got back together. Everything is fine,so i thought THis guy i reallt hate always hits on her. Right in front of me. Im like wtf she doesnt realize that he is, and everyone is like that dude is hitting on her, I hate this guy. What should i do?
Member # 26230
posted 11-22-2005 02:24 PM
Well with what you have told me i'm sure she likes you but it can be dependant on her reaction when the guy was hitting on her.
If I were you I would be mad if someone was hitting on my gf. But don't lose your temper (a temper lost is a battle lost)try and work your way into the conversation, show\tell him in a descreet manner that she is your gf so hands off, for example you can can say to tell him about something funny that happened with you and her or put your arm around her. Keep talking and asking them questions it will won't give him a chance to hit on her.
Remember this guy may just do it to get on your nerves so keep your friends close and your enemy's closer
Member # 1207
posted 11-22-2005 09:13 PM
I don't see the issue with having your partner 'hit on' or flirted with by someone else. A lot of people take that as a compliment even ... Knowing that other people are interested in their partner, and yet, their partner is choosing to be w/ them anyway.
That all said, give your girlfriend a little credit. She's a big girl ... A little flirting one way or another shouldn't sway her decision on whether or not she's happy with your relationship and whether or not she's willing to end it for someone else.
You can't stop this guy from flirting with your girlfriend, but you can control how you react to it.
Member # 26261
posted 11-22-2005 09:32 PM
Yeah i was thinking about what you guys said and i think i was over reacting. Just today she told me that hes really anoying and shes just trying to be nice to him so im good