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openeyesandmind
Member # 18934
posted 11-04-2005 12:51 AM
My boyfriend kind of uncomfortably told me that he "masturbates without his hands." He said, in fact, "I'm the one in ten guys who masturbates like this." and implied he might have some resulting performance problems. What does he mean??!!
Bobolink
Member # 1386
posted 11-04-2005 01:22 AM
Men can masturbate without the use of hands. Rubbing with any object can work. We can't know what he is doing. Ask him.I can't see this begetting any "performance" problems.
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Gumdrop Girl
Member # 568
posted 11-04-2005 01:25 AM
i dunno where he got the one in ten number. a lot of people have a lot of different ways of masturbating. masturbation by itself won't harm sexual function, even if he's not using his hands. but what he means by all of this, well i don't know. it's kinda vague what he was saying. you'd do best to ask him what he means.------------------LA County STD Hotline 1.800.758.0880 Toll free STD and clinic information, and condoms sent to your door for Los Angeles County residents.1 in 3 sexually active people will be exposed to a STD by the time they turn 24.
ladydexter
Member # 17567
posted 11-04-2005 06:57 AM
I think the "one in ten" figure is one commonly applied to autofellatio?
Gumdrop Girl
Member # 568
posted 11-06-2005 11:32 AM
well, autofellatio isn't going to harm your performance either. that, and i think the "one in ten" figure is of dubious origins.in either case, unless he causes a physical injury to his penis, like breaking a major vessel or rupturing the fascia (which happens far more often with actual sexual intercourse), he's not in any danger.
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ladydexter
Member # 17567
posted 11-07-2005 12:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gumdrop Girl:and i think the "one in ten" figure is of dubious origins. Yup, I think so too, but it's all too easy to find that one in ten statistic splattered across the internet - or it was a couple of months back, not so sure about now. Not saying it's true, just it's probably where it came from.
feefiefofemme
Member # 23917
posted 11-09-2005 11:26 PM
I have an unlikely theory about what he means, but because of its unlikelihood I shall refrain from revealing it. Personally, I'd not worry about it. Because of the vagueness of what he's said it's really not worth your energy. Unless you want to ask him for a more specific explanation.
daria319
Member # 19692
posted 11-18-2005 02:55 PM
If he's using a vacuum cleaner, then yes, it's dangerous. Of course, I doubt anyone with much of a brain would do that..especially since there's a Darwin Award for it.