Originally posted by babygurl16:
and if i ask him he will not tell the truth. how would i start the conversation. what do i say first? i've been used and hurt before and i'm terrified that is all i'm going to get in my life.
If you know he won't tell you the truth than the guy is bad news. If you're so upset all the time because of his behavior it's time to move one.
YOu may love him, or think you do, but it's obvious you don't trust him to tell you the truth. That doesn't make a lasting relationship. I"ve been engaged twice since I was a sophmore in Highschool and let me tell you, you're young and you need to stop wasting your time with this punk.
Just because you get 1, 2, or maybe even 10 bad apples it doens't mean that's all you'll ever get. If it becomes a serious pattern though you need to reexamine what oyu want in a man, and what you've been getting and try to reconcile the two.
It's a tough road to hoe, but sometimes it's best to go it alone until you find someone that fits what you want in a partner. Sometimes it takes a short time..and sometimes it takes a lifetime.